{"id":6621,"date":"2019-08-17T23:56:09","date_gmt":"2019-08-17T23:56:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thebossyhouse.com\/?p=6621"},"modified":"2020-11-13T04:18:04","modified_gmt":"2020-11-13T04:18:04","slug":"embrace-communal-school-supplies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thebossyhouse.com\/embrace-communal-school-supplies\/","title":{"rendered":"Embrace Communal School Supplies with These 7 Tips"},"content":{"rendered":"
<\/span><\/p>\n THIS POST MIGHT CONTAIN AFFILIATE LINKS. MY DISCLOSURE POLICY<\/strong><\/span><\/a> GIVES YOU MORE DETAILS.<\/p>\n Every fall, communal school supplies are a source of complaint from parents. Here at The Bossy House, we’re throwing our weight behind communal school supplies, so if you’re a hater this post is for you.<\/p>\n Whether you support communal school supplies or are hate-reading this post, welcome. I’m here to provide some much-needed rationale for community supplies <\/strong>so you have all the information you need to create an angry comment just for me. AND to embrace the practice at your kids’ school. <\/p>\n Each fall, parents get the school supply list from the front office or in the annual start-of-school mailing. That supply list includes things like tissues and notebook paper and pencils and crayons and glue sticks. <\/p>\n Some kids go to schools where EVERYONE in the school buys their supplies and keeps them in their desk or backpack. Each child manages their own pencil case with pens, pencils, and fun sparkly erasers (just for fun!)<\/p>\n Other kids go to schools where 50% or more of the kids show up to the first day and don\u2019t have school supplies. <\/strong><\/p>\n If you’re at one of these schools, your kid goes to school with kids whose families can\u2019t afford school supplies. <\/p>\n If one school in your city has to spend thousands of dollars on basic supplies that another school down the street doesn\u2019t have to spend because parents cover those expenses, you have a basic inequity right there. <\/p>\n But all kids need pencils and glue sticks, so schools with more kids who are poor spend more of their limited budget on school supplies that other schools have their parents purchase. This is just one way that schools with mostly middle class kids have more resources that schools with economically disadvantaged kids.<\/p>\n If one school in your city has to spend thousands of dollars on basic supplies that another school down the street doesn\u2019t have to spend because parents cover those expenses, you have a basic inequity right there. <\/p>\n In these schools, teachers don\u2019t call attention to who didn\u2019t bring school supplies, and they don\u2019t deny those kids supplies. So what do they do? <\/p>\n In these schools, supplies are collected from all children and then distributed through the school year. On the first day of school, all the pencils and crayons and glue sticks are collected and put in the closet.<\/p>\n Instead of keeping their glue sticks in their fancy glitter pencil cases, kids communally share a caddy of supplies<\/strong> at the side of the room or with their table group. Teachers replenish the caddy throughout the year, and when the supplies run out the school buys more. (In some schools, the teacher buys more.) <\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n Some parents send their supplies to school with their child\u2019s name on them in permanent marker because they resent having to share their supplies communally. <\/p>\n I\u2019ve had conversations with these parents and they inevitably say \u201cWhy should I spend money on supplies to have you give them to other kids?\u201d <\/p>\n Well, the point is that ALL the kids are taken care of, not just your kid. <\/strong><\/p>\n Teachers will make sure EVERYONE has a gluestick. By collecting the 3-packs of gluesticks, they\u2019re making sure each person gets one now and stores the rest so everyone gets enough for the year. Your child isn\u2019t missing out on gluesticks, you\u2019re just not going to ensure she gets the exact gluestick you bought. <\/p>\n And just in case you\u2019re saying \u201cGlue sticks cost $1. I shouldn\u2019t have to provide glue sticks for someone who doesn\u2019t bother to save up for back to school shopping,” please check yourself. <\/p>\n Consider that poverty results in more than just a lack of money. Poverty means a lack of time and freedom <\/strong>about that time. It\u2019s very likely that the mom of your child\u2019s classmate works two jobs and has precious little time for school shopping. Or she doesn\u2019t have transportation to get to the store. <\/p>\n And just in case you\u2019re saying \u201cShe could take a cab to go school shopping,\u201d double check yourself. <\/p>\n Just think back to that time when your husband took the car with the car seat so you couldn\u2019t bring your child with you to the Target, and there were no babysitters so you decided to go another day but then the next day your cousin needed you to pick up the girls from soccer and you ran out of time. <\/p>\n Think about the last time logistics were challenging and you opted out. I rest my case. <\/p>\n So this year, spend the $50 on your supplies knowing they might be shared communally. And know that communal school supplies can teach us a lot about how we live in the world. <\/strong><\/p>\n Think about summer camp and when your cabin of 12 girls split the slices of the last three oranges equally. Remember when you road tripped with friends and everyone pooled their snacks. Consider how many times you\u2019ve leant a pen to a friend in a meeting. <\/p>\n And help out. <\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n You might say it’s not fair that you “have” to pay for supplies while some parents just opt out. Fair enough. But if you sent your child to a mostly middle class school you’d still be paying for supplies. It would just FEEL more fair because everyone was paying. <\/span><\/p>\n But really, what is the value of fairness around school supplies when there is a huge variety in economic status to start with?<\/strong> <\/p>\n Some families EASILY can afford the supplies. If that’s your family, wonderful. And for other families, this is a huge hardship. So the circumstances start out unfair, and you’re most likely not the victim here.<\/strong> <\/p>\n In addition, the consequences of you not purchasing school supplies hurts the school.<\/p>\n You might pay $50 for supplies and another mom might pay $0. Just consider it your tax for living that sometimes we help other folks out when we have enough. <\/p>\nEconomic inequity at school<\/h2>\n
The rationale for communal school supplies<\/h2>\n
Communal school supplies make us better<\/h2>\n
\u200bFace it: Schools are Communal<\/strong><\/h2>\n